Case Study: Genevieve's Story       by Steve Gunn 

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A big thank you to Genevieve for sharing her story..



I dont feature stories here, personal experiences are for the discussion forums - whereas this blog is to introduce spiritual metaphysical principles and techniques...however I asked Genevieve to share hers here because it really demonstrates the first law of the cosmos very clearly....

That law is that however much we care for someone, we must overcome our own need first in order to find peace and fulfilment from self.. Nobody but us can complete us, after which we are free to love many and all..

Thanks Gen..

GENEVIEVE'S STORY

Soul connections are tough; they are meant to teach us important lessons and force us to grow into the people we are meant to be. It can be hard to see how to make it through the process or how to have the breakthroughs that get you to the end. I’m writing this to share a few of my key breakthroughs in hopes that it will help some move through the process a little quicker.

My breakthroughs came in stages – more like multiple breakthroughs that finally led me to the last breakthrough and the end of the soul connection process. I realized that reassurance was only hindering me in progressing through the soul connection, changed my focus from the relationship to my growth and the lessons I needed to learn, and made a conscious decision to no longer wait for my soul connection to come back around.

One of my first breakthroughs was to realize that I needed to forget reassurance- no matter how many times someone tells you your soul connection IS going to leave the relationship they’re in or come back to you - being told this is not going to make them do it. This is the problem with reassurance. The SITUATION, the reality I was living WASN’T changing.

No matter how many times a psychic or friend reassured me he loved me and that we would be so happy together it wasn’t moving us forward - he wasn’t breaking up with his girlfriend, we weren’t building the kind of relationship I wanted to build.

When I turned my back on reassurance my progress through the process moved along faster and I was able to change my focus from the relationship and needing my guy to come back; to working on my own issues and more importantly working on my relationship with myself.

This was another one of my breakthroughs.

I realized that one cannot be in a great relationship until you have a great relationship with yourself. I had to accept loving myself the most, the best and all the time. I had to also work through my issues, face my fears and insecurities.

Soul connections seem to be mainly about the relationship, yet it’s often more about your individual journey, growth and your relationship with YOURSELF. It mirrors the things you need to work on and it mirrors where your relationship with yourself is lacking.

As I focused on myself and my work, I progressed to the point where I was ready to move into a place where I didn’t care if he ever came back. Of course, the pull was still there, but I knew I was ready to take the next step no matter how hard it was and no matter how long it took. So everyday I focused on recovering my energy and myself.

I studied and practiced some techniques that helped me find more peace, and be less pulled around by the soul connection. This is what got me through the really tough days - it helped me make more sense of the madness and the more I did it, over a few months, the better and better I felt. It’s not an overnight fix and requires work but it gives you a tool belt that can help you get through the soul connection with so much more peace and understanding.

As I thought over the entire journey of this connection I realized that one of the major points of the soul connection was to get to where I am today.

There was no longer an intense necessity to be with him at the cost of myself. The energy had completely mellowed down. This was a sudden breakthrough, but also the culmination of all the hard work I had done and other breakthroughs I had gone through. Having that understanding and better relationship with myself was worth so much more than any romantic relationship.

There is happiness and peace at the end of the journey. And the catch is.....it doesn’t matter what the other half of the soul connection does. It doesn’t matter whether they call you or not, whether they dump the girlfriend/boyfriend or not, whether they can be a healthy partner in a relationship with you or not.

If you are reading this and feeling hopeless. Feeling like this could never be you - you could never fathom being able to be in this place of happiness, peace and understanding; fear not - I was once exactly where you stand now. And I can tell you, you too will make it to the other side; surprisingly faster than you think.

To help you get there faster may I recommend letting go of reassurance, focusing on yourself and continuing to work hard. I’m here telling my story in hopes that it will help even one person get through this process one day faster because the other side is such an absolutely AMAZING place.

Genevieve




Genevieve's Resources

http://healmyenergy.com
http://priyakale.com